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Don't Beg People For Attention

In my last post, I talked about the IMAGINARY FRIEND that one should have when one finds no one to get support from and feels totally alone. But this seems impractical now after using this trick for a few days, I can now give my feedback on this. In my current opinion, even your imagination cannot help you except that it can only deceive you and keep you in the past. You will miss all the happenings of the present and will miss all the opportunities of the future as well. Hence I started looking for some other solutions. What I found I would love to share with you, my readers. - Focus on YOURSELF! There is no one more important than yourself. - Invest your time and energy in your own grooming. - Do not beg for attention and care from anyone in the whole world, it is just you who can take care of yourself. - You are the best, you are pretty, remember this. No matter how the world looks at you, no matter what the world talks about you. - Do something to earn money, money is the biggest

Imagination for Survival

When you look at them and find no love in their eyes, when they stop smiling when seeing you, when they lost the softness of their tone while talking to you, when they start making fun of you, when they take your mental health for granted, when they do not trust you anymore, when they start thinking that you have no grief on their losses … You are left with no option, and you have to survive too, and they do not even try to understand what do you want, who used to understand the whole story from your eyes …   then …   you have to create an imaginary character in your life to survive, to share, to relive memories because you are not disloyal and won’t ever make a new relationship and because you still love them. An imaginary past (how your life partner used to be) who keeps you in the past when everything was in your favor, you used to be taken care of, just like a baby.   I am also trying to make an imaginary friend (my past), who is not very strong now, it’s vague. I am trying to make